The very fact that you think you could fuck up being a Mom is the reason you won’t. ‘Crazy’ people don’t worry about being ‘crazy’ either. Or so I’ve been told. The waves of grief crash over, under and around. There is no normal way to handle it. Cry whenever you damn well feel like it. You will find your new normal. You will be changed, but you will still be you. And you will still be a great Mom.
Just a reminder. You won't sink. You won't "fuck up". Your natural strength and connection toward growth will guide you, and those that love you are right here to make sure you stay afloat on your journey. Don't forget that as you find your focus.
You are doing far better than others have, who were in your current situation. I don't know you personally Heather. I only know your written words. I knew Andy since 1978. I know what I have personally been through in my life. And in my darkest hours, I knew that I always had two choices. Quit and give up. Or get back up and move forward. Like me, you have chosen the latter. As hard as it is, you are doing remarkably well. And for what it's worth, I love both photos.
You're making good decisions for you n the boys. It'll be strange for some time. But you'll get there. It'll never totally go away but won't be as painful as in the beginning. You have wonderful memories to remember. Thinking of you n praying for peace for you all.
The very fact that you think you could fuck up being a Mom is the reason you won’t. ‘Crazy’ people don’t worry about being ‘crazy’ either. Or so I’ve been told. The waves of grief crash over, under and around. There is no normal way to handle it. Cry whenever you damn well feel like it. You will find your new normal. You will be changed, but you will still be you. And you will still be a great Mom.
Just a reminder. You won't sink. You won't "fuck up". Your natural strength and connection toward growth will guide you, and those that love you are right here to make sure you stay afloat on your journey. Don't forget that as you find your focus.
You are doing far better than others have, who were in your current situation. I don't know you personally Heather. I only know your written words. I knew Andy since 1978. I know what I have personally been through in my life. And in my darkest hours, I knew that I always had two choices. Quit and give up. Or get back up and move forward. Like me, you have chosen the latter. As hard as it is, you are doing remarkably well. And for what it's worth, I love both photos.
Sounds so difficult. Even blurry, it's a beautiful photo and a powerful metaphor.
You're making good decisions for you n the boys. It'll be strange for some time. But you'll get there. It'll never totally go away but won't be as painful as in the beginning. You have wonderful memories to remember. Thinking of you n praying for peace for you all.
I have every confidence that you won't fuck this up.
You will succeed, because you have the will