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Oh Heather, I’m so sorry for all you’ve gone through and are going through. My heart breaks for you and your sons.

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Grief is difficult. Add trauma to that and it’s almost unbearable. I am so sorry you had to experience such atrocious care at the hospital. I was raging with you when I went back and read your posts. Unfortunately, it is everywhere. Where it’s supposed to be a place for comfort and healing, it’s filled with doctors who have no compassion and empathy and treat patients less than human. You’re more stressed coming out of the hospital than you were going in. I hope you and your boys find some sort of peace knowing that Andy is no longer suffering or in pain. Sending love and strength.

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Oh Heather, this is so hard. The anger is justified. My dad died 3 weeks after his cancer diagnosis when he was only 57 and it was similarly chaotic, mismanaged, and shocking. I'm so sorry. It's a lot to work through in addition to the regular brick of grief.

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